**PLEASE REPOST FOR NPD AWARENESS** 🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨👹💔💔I had my back against the wall when I was with my narcissistic ex, I was isolated in a state where I knew no one and he was born and raised where we had moved thousands of miles away from where I have family. Everyday he’d remind me that if I ever were to breakup with him he’d find me and kill me. He bought a gun that he’d keep in the closet, some days he’d take it out and just admire it and give me smirks. He would tell me I belong to him and that we had made a promise (which, I don’t fkng know what he was talking about!!🤔🤔 Needless to say, narcs are all DELUSIONAL!!!) it took me over 2 years to breakup with him & restraining order but he still calls me from jail and tells me “you’re the love of my life” “we belong together” “I’ve changed, I’ll never hurt you again” “I have realized I was wrong” “I’’m better now” THEY MISS THE CONTROL THEY STOLE FROM YOU AND WILL DO EVERYTHING TO GET THAT RUSH AGAIN👹💯‼️‼️🔥🔥🔥....... Please repost and tag if you love this page @narcissistfreenow 🙏🏼💖💖💖💖 💯🚨🚨 <——— 🚨🚨🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼. 🔥🔥 NEW PAGE 🔥 SOUL-HEALING ⏳ AWAKENING 🧠❤️ HIT FOLLOW 🔥🔥 @narcissistfreenow #narcissistfreenow <———- <———- #narcissism#awareness#coach#advocate#thirdeye#lesson#universe#real#love#pain#hate#npd#sociopath#inspirationalquotes#instagood#fashion#statement#marijuana#mentalhealth#knowledge#facts#empath#follow#narcissistfreenow
Anyone who’s been involved with a narcissist knows that they are completely unable to respect boundaries. But they have absolutely no problem with setting boundaries for YOU. In my personal relationship with narcissist he set up rules for me as soon as we committed. He was quite blunt actually. And it sounded like this. “You can never ignore me. If I text you, you will excuse yourself from whatever you are doing & reply to me.” • “You can’t talk to your friends & family about our relationship. Especially not the bad stuff. It is private. Relationships are private.” • “I can argue with you 100 times & it will only make me love you more.” The list goes on. Notice how, especially the last sentence excuse inexcusable behaviors as if there’s something romantic about it them. Seeing how my Narcissist ex told me these things after just a day into our relationship I whole heartedly believe that he already knew that wasn’t going to be nice or fair. He was very much aware of how nasty he was going to treat me. So he shamed me for taking about our relationship before there was even anything to talk about and he excused his inexcusable behaviors before hand. This triggered alarms clocks in me immediately. But I wasn’t in love with him at this point so I chose to ignore them because It is only common sense that you keep relationships private right? The second time he told me this, I pointed out that I will in fact not hesitate to ask for help if I need it at all, no matter how many times he tells me. You see, normal healthy people don’t need to point out the obvious. But an abuser will put extra weight on the Importance of this since he fears exposure.
Narcissistic abusers, like mythical vampires, suck the very life out of their victims. Their emotional framework is “like a vacuum that needs to suck out the emotional energy of healthy individuals in order to survive”. So they dupe you into “investing all that you are into who they were and what they needed from you...and now that person is absent you are as hollow a shell as they are. They sucked every last bit of self from you, left you in ruins, and now you have to rebuild. It’s so insidious because it’s the sacrifice of all of you, and you do it willingly. You have so much self-doubt, loathing, anger, resentment, rage, fear, sorrow, #pain and disbelief that finding your way out of that shell-shocked state is a harder journey than the sacrifice you made. Why? Because you made that sacrifice for love, for that other person, because you felt good doing it. Now you are broken, and finding the desire to rebuild out of the wreckage is hard, and now you have to do it for you. You have to find the strength in the tatters left behind, and it seems impossible. What’s more, you struggle to find the motivation to do so.” (Quotes from Quora). So listen...yes, it will feel impossible, you’ll have no energy and it will be a daily struggle. But it can be done and it MUST be done. Your abuser does not get to define your worth, nor do they get to destroy your right to a happy life. You simply cannot give them that power. Besides, you truly do deserve so much more. So you’re going to have to decide, firmly decide now, that you are going to recover everything that you lost of yourself and more. Start at the beginning, just start, wherever that is for you. #GetHelp to #GetHealthy . Set boundaries. Forgive yourself. Learn to love, value and put yourself first. Take responsibility for your own happiness. And do away, discard, leave behind, cut out all the toxic people in your life who’ve been deliberately holding you back. #SelfLove#SelfCare#AbuseRecovery#HealthRecovery#MentalHealth#CPTSD#PTSD#NPD#NPDAbuse#NarcissisticAbuse#ChildAbuse#Gaslighting#FinancialAbuse#Narcissist#Sociopath#Psychopath#EscapeAbuse#NoContact#YesYouCan#SurvivorCommunity#YouAreNotAlone
@salome_mercenaire - Reading this baby for the third time. The first time was highly triggering, the second time it was still hard but now the third time I feel like it's really starting to sink in. Pete Walker you're not on instagram - you crazy cat - but the world owes you a huge debt. CPTSD needs to be included in the next DSM... Major paradigm shift. Thanks Pete Walker 🙏🏼 you've changed my life 🙏🏼 #cptsd#cptsdawareness#npd#npdabuse#complextrauma#petewalker#emotionalflashback - #regrann
There are those amongst us that are not who they appear to be...They usually portray themselves as kind, loving, and generous…especially when they are in the presence of others…but if I may be so bold and reveal the truth about these certain “people” …They are very cruel, cunning, spiteful and abusive behind closed doors… How many of you reading this poem can relate to the words I have written? Or probably know someone that may be in a similar situation with someone that they are currently with?
This poem may resonate with someone that was raised by a mother that may have been highly critical, emotionally unavailable…and verbally and physically abusive…For no apparent reason…Or it may be about the husband that was neglectful and never took accountability for the way his actions towards his wife (when in the presence of his children) permanently damaged their childhood and altered their views on life... Please swipe left on this post for the rest of my thoughts on this poem. And please tag someone that may need to read this so that they have the comfort of knowing there are others...like myself...that understand the turmoil of emotions that some of us have to endure when we have relationships with certain people that have personality disorders...
Their need for supply is not something a normal person can wrap their brain around. They will NEVER be satisfied with one woman. Their fear of abandonment and of being alone is too strong and so they will “build a bench” of supply. And when one source no longer gives them what they need, they will move on to the next one. Over and over and over.
“Do you want to feel real power? Observe the warrior...” No one chooses this path. No one wakes up and says “hmm I think I want to fight my ass off daily for basic respect and happiness and love”, but we find ourselves here. Unwilling, yet fierce warriors.