A sub and dom relationship is supposed to be sacred.
A dom is supposed to care and never ignore his sub,neglect is one of the WORST things he can do.
He needs to reassure her she’s needed and beautiful And loved.
A lot of littles/pets/subs do have mental problems as I do myself.
You are making a commitment when you become a dom,using the girl to make you look good or just for sex makes you a fuckboy.
Even with being someone’s dom it doesn’t give you the right to sex.
So before you commit ask yourself this,
Are you ready to care for her?
Are you ready to be patient?
Are you ready for disagreements?
And most importantly do you dig her enough to stick around if things get rough?